Getting married at a British embassy, high commission or consulate
How to arrange a consular marriage, including giving notice, what to bring to the ceremony and which countries offer the service.
You can get married at a British embassy, high commission or consulate abroad if:
- local laws do not allow you and your partner to get married
- local authorities have given us permission and we follow their requirements
This is sometimes called a consular marriage.
In some countries you can register a consular civil partnership.
How to arrange a consular marriage
- Make sure you understand all the eligibility requirements of getting married in your chosen country.
- Contact the embassy, high commission or consulate to book an appointment to give notice and set a provisional date for your ceremony.
- Attend your appointment to give notice of your marriage.
- Wait 14 days while your notice is displayed.
- If no one objects, attend your ceremony within 3 months of your first appointment.
Giving notice of your marriage
You’ll need to sign a legal statement at the embassy, high commission or consulate to say you intend to get married. This is known as ‘giving notice’.
You must be living in the country you’re going to get married in for 7 full days before you can give notice.
It costs £50 to give notice and you’ll need to pay with a debit or credit card. If both you and your partner are British nationals, you’ll both need to give notice and pay £50 each.
You need to bring:
- your passport
- your partner’s passport or national identity card
- proof that you’ve been in the country for 7 days (for example, a bank statement, flight or train ticket or passport stamp)
- payment (check with the embassy, high commission or consulate which payment methods they accept)
If your partner’s not British, they’ll need to bring documentation from their embassy or government that they’re free to marry.
If you or your partner have been married or in a civil partnership before, you’ll need one of the following:
- your original decree absolute or final order (this could be a printed PDF and covering email from the court) – or the equivalent in your country
- your annulment certificate
- your civil partnership dissolution
- your partner’s death certificate and marriage certificate
Your consular marriage will be registered under the law of England and Wales, Scotland or Northern Ireland. You’ll need to say at this appointment which UK country you want to register under.
The embassy, high commission or consulate will display your notice publicly for 14 days. If nobody makes an objection, you can agree a date for your consular civil partnership within 3 months of your first appointment.
What you’ll need to do for the ceremony
Your marriage ceremony will be at the embassy, high commission or consulate on the date you agreed.
You and your partner will sign a declaration that you’re free to marry.
You’ll need to bring 2 witnesses. You, your partner and your 2 witnesses will sign the marriage register. Your witnesses must:
- bring photo ID
- be 16 or over
- know you or your partner
- know English well enough to follow the ceremony and understand the documents they have to sign
It costs £150 to register your marriage. You’ll need to pay £50 for a marriage certificate.
You can pay when you give notice or when your marriage ceremony takes place. You should check with the embassy, high commission or consulate which payment methods they accept.
Your consular marriage will be officially recognised in the same way as ceremonies that take place in the UK.